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Anxiety and the Alarm System in Children | Dr. Gordon Neufeld “Anxiety is the conscious tip of the brain’s alarm system.” – Dr. Gordon Neufeld Anxiety isn’t the problem—it’s a signal. It tells us that a child’s alarm system has been activated, usually because they’re facing more separation than they can handle. When the separation is too much to bear, the brain hides the true source of alarm. That’s when fears, obsessions, and compulsions appear—monsters in the dark, constant worries, or endless
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Dr. Gordon Neufeld on empathy: "Empathy is the fruit of caring. It is a spontaneous outcome if conditions are conducive. That's the part that should be our focus and concern." We invite you to watch this four-minute preview of our new online offering, The Natural Roots of Empathy. Dr. Neufeld traces empathy to its natural roots in attachment, feelings and development. After years of putting the pieces of the empathy puzzle together, he presents his two-factor model for the development of empathy
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Our deepest drive isn’t survival — it’s togetherness. In this clip, Dr. Gordon Neufeld explains emotion as Nature’s way of taking care of our most basic need: attachment. When something goes wrong, our first impulse is to seek our people — Where’s mom? Where’s dad? Where’s my family? — even if it means moving toward danger rather than away from it. Emotion, in his words, serves attachment. It rises most strongly when separation is faced and works to close the gap between us. When we see behaviou
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Our deepest drive isn’t survival — it’s togetherness. In this clip, Dr. …
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“Children must never work for our love. They must rest in it.” - Gordon Neufeld. Many of us have made the same mistakes. We have said things like: "I can’t be your friend if you’re going to be like that. Off to your room. I withdraw the invitation to exist in my presence…" Everyday interactions like this can place children in charge of preserving the connection. Too often, they find themselves working for the relationship—holding on when that role was never meant to be theirs. The restlessness t
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Join leading expert in attachment, Dr. Gordon Neufeld, at our spring conference as he walks us through The Dance of Attachment which explores the pivotal role attachment plays in our everyday lives, and how we can support our children in building strong, secure relationships. | Institute of Child Psychology
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Why it’s profound This was said by the incredible Gordon Neufeld. He was speaking about our children of course and how healing and important their sadness is. We are meant to feel sad and cry our tears sometimes. Children instinctively know this and they will get to the point of shedding tears as a way to get back to feeling themselves. Parents are often so fixated on happy and wanting our kids to be happy that we will fix their sadness. Parents will do anything to get their child out of their t
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Why it’s profound This was said by the incredible Gordon Neufeld. He …
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“If you don't feel your emptiness, you'll lose the capacity to ever fee…
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“Emotions are very important — they’re meant to move us, and wh…
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“For transplanting to be successful, children need to adopt their new ‘…
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Why do teenagers pull away — and how do we tell the difference betw…
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“Every single emotion has its reason. It may be irrational, but th…
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We can't cause growth. We can't cause the unfolding of potential. - …
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The good news about relationship is that it is never too late - Dr. Gordo…
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What is the need for 'true tears' - Dr. Gordon Neufeld
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We've lost the ability to ritualize life, to save our energy for other thing…
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Play is meant to take care of our emotion. Dr. Gordon Neufeld
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Play is the lightning rod for all emotion that have difficulty being …
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Play has become an endangered activity - Dr. Gordon Neufeld
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Dr. Gordon Neufeld shared this study, I didn’t do my own researc…
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Relationship Matters | Dr. Gordon Neufeld | TEDxWestVancouverED
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