Becoming a single mum is hard, but It’s also unexpectedly joyful’ with the unexpected 'strength' and 'happiness' we find from doing it alone. There are so many unspoken upsides; the weights off your shoulders and the friendships that lift you up, that make single motherhood way more fun that everyone else seems to think it shouldn't be. People don’t talk about this when you tell them you’re separated. They tell you they’re sorry and that you’re brave. But what they should really say is, ‘Congrat